Today is our 11th wedding anniversary! It's gone really, really quickly. Over these years I learned few things about marriage and being in love. We drive each other crazy sometimes, but we can’t live without each other.
I know that not all couples marry are this lucky. I found my soul mate and I always thank God that we have been able to grow together and love each other even in hard times.
Today, I’m a happy wife with an understanding husband and an adorable boy.
Few things secrets I learned during these 11years.
*We are two people with different personality. But we learn to appreciate each others character and role in life.
*My husband is 6years older than me. He is older and wiser. It works well between us. He has strengths which I miss.
*Totally accepting each other who we are and not asking to be someone else. I knew sometimes I can be stupid, but I also knew he accept me as I’m.
*We have not always been perfect, but we respect each other.
*That is ok to be annoyed and to go to sleep angry. Sometimes things just cannot to be resolved in one night.
*The secret to a happy marriage is the idea of how to get through the worst time together.
*Don’t miss to cherish every moment. You will be proud to look back one day how you got through together, even at the hard times.
*No matter what, care for each other and honor each other.
*Our child learns to the respect and love from us. So be the model you desire your children have in a relationship.
*Life is hard with up and down, but never give up.
* Always thank &compliment each other for all the big and little you do for one another.
I am happy and so grateful that we have been able to appreciate the change we have both going through.
Do you fight fair? I love to hear some tips for a happy marriage...
Thank you!
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